Welcome to the season of Self Devotion, babes. This month is all about calling your energy back to you. Now is the time to give yourself permission to claim sweetness for yourself—what desires have you been hiding away in the shadows? What parts of yourself have you been holding back, chipping away at, or outright denying? We're here to support you all month long as you coax your pleasure into the light.

In the coming weeks, let yourself be seen for what you truly are—a glorious babe. You're worthy of being worshipped, and your desires deserve to be tended to! How are you getting your needs met? Where can you create space in your schedule for lavish self-tending? Remember that the time spent re-filling your cup is sacred. When was the last time you poured love into yourself simply because you knew you deserved it?

This month, reach for the plethora of self-care tools at your fingertips. On March 17th, pop in the shop for a tarot reading from Hazel Fern from 12pm to 4pm! Click here to reserve your spot. Join us for a March workshop, catered to help you set the scene for the dreamiest spring, and learn how to cast small spells for pleasure on the blog. In our private community, Seagrape Babes, you'll find additional resources (from tarot spreads and spells to community groups) for building a life you're in love with!

Pleasure Filled Year digital course doors close in just THREE days, babe! What better time to dive into this amazing program then our month of Self Devotion?!

New and Full Moon Missives

March 7th marks the Virgo full moon. This is a call to return to center—to encircle ourselves with roots, dim all distraction, and get clear on our needs before we step into the next phase. Perched on the far edge of the dark season, this full moon is also a pertinent reminder to look hard at what feels muddled, sticky, and tumultuous now. What small cogs need to shift so that your vision can dance into being as though by clockwork? What little changes can you make to your daily rituals, patterns, and habits to become more aware of lingering stagnancy? 

This full moon lands just ahead of the spring equinox, a time of deep stretching towards the light, sleepy awakenings, and tender growth. How far are you willing to stretch yourself in these final days of winter? How much clarity are you willing to receive around your true needs? Virgo is a mutable earth sign, with a talent for ordering the incomprehensible, making sense of the nonsensical, and bringing certainty to the unknowable. This is a sign of deep trust. Adaptability becomes joyful under a Virgo full moon. Systems and structure are made irresistible. 

Romance yourself with a plan now—make a list of what needs to be done, what your limits are, and what support you need from your communities in order to make your intentions flow into action. Virgo is delighted by the magic of the mundane. Well-loved planners, sleep hygiene, black tourmaline, therapy appointments, and mullein are all potent allies this lunation. Call on these tools for support as you're working your magic, babe.

The new moon in Aries on March 21st opens the way towards movement, journeying, and brazen leaps into uncharted territory. As the spring season begins to unfurl, allow your conscious mind to fall quiet, let your heart tug you forward. How can you be both brave and gentle on this Aries new moon? What projects are you ready to launch into heart-first? What blockages, disruptions, and signs are calling for your most tender attention right now?

Aries is the first, and therefore the youngest, fire sign in the zodiac. An Aries heart is wild and flickering—childlike, not yet tamed or tempered, and as unruly as it is curious. This new moon, give your inner fire permission to expand into childlike curiosity. Leap, bound, and surge forward towards the dark corners, the forgotten feelings, and the familiar magic this month. If Aries is anything, they are unafraid. Embody Aries' fierce refusal to fear the unknown this lunation. What would you seek out now, if there were no consequences? What would you make, if you had no reason to doubt yourself? 

If hesitation and anxiety are rearing their heads under this new moon, take a moment to validate these feelings with wonder. If your heart is telling you slow down, ask it why. If your heart is telling you this is too soon, too much, too reckless, ask your heart what it needs to feel safe again. Hold yourself with a child's touch, and let your awe blossom. 

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